If this man wants to know more, he’ll have to take you on a date or call you on the phone.He’ll have to know more about you before you go spilling the intellectual goods. I’ve had my share of experiences with men who didn’t have to common sense God gave a lightbulb, but they were amazing men. If you’re too concerned with outwitting your date, then you may miss out on meeting a great guy.Sometimes, you have relationship questions that you just don’t want to ask your mom, your best friend, your coworker, or some random person on the street.You want someone with more experience, or an expert in the field, or even just someone anonymous who can’t give you a weird look.Don’t make the mistake of using your resume as an ego booster for a man. When you meet a man you want him to to get to know more about you. If a topic arises that you know a lot about don’t share everything you know.Give a quick preview, a sound bite, a hint of what you know.
Leading with credentials are a quick way to come across as boring or self-important. Smart women seem to talk exponentially more than that.
Successful flirting is largely based on how you make a man feel.
If you’re hammering your point home and drilling it into your date that you’re right and he’s wrong instead of seeming smart you’ll seem mean.
Caring about what you look like isn’t the ultimate betrayal of feminism or an insult to female intelligence.
Feeling beautiful is an essential part of being a woman yet some very intelligent women ignore their looks almost as an allegiance to their intelligence.
If you’re an intelligent woman and you have the documents to prove it, good for you but being smart about men isn’t the same as being book smart. What every smart person should know is being charismatic is just as important as being intelligent.