There might be some areas where you have to talk to them or God has to change about them, but once again the person should be godly.
She watches over the activities of her household and is never idle.
The world teaches that you are supposed to put your kids and your parents before your spouse. We are so quick to say I believe the Lord has given me this person. If the person is not Christian, then the Lord didn’t give you that person. Many people get into relationships and when they break up they find out that they were not really in love. Not only are you to lead each other by the way you live your life, but you have to worship together. You will start saying, “maybe I’m too this, maybe I’m too that, maybe I need to start looking like this, maybe I need to buy that.” That is idolatry and of the devil. He wants you to keep on knocking and one day He is going to say, “enough, you want it?
If you seek to enter into a relationship with an unbeliever not only is it wrong, you will regret it, and you will be hurt. There are so many things in this world that help you deceive yourself. In a relationship you both are going to learn from each other, but the woman takes the submissive role and the man takes the leadership role. Is he living in godliness and seeking to obey the Word?
Titus 2:3-5 Older women likewise are to exhibit behavior fitting for those who are holy, not slandering, not slaves to excessive drinking, but teaching what is good. She sees that her profits are good, and her lamp never goes out at night.
One December morning, about four months into dating my partner, I woke up and knew I loved him.
Like that time he went to get coffee and bagels for us when it was snowing, so I could stay warm under the covers. And the way he respects me and champions even my weirdest of interests.(Think: a three-week experiment in which I didn’t shave my legs, underarms, or anything else.)I was so nervous.Even though I was sure I loved him, the idea of putting it out there was terrifying. Things might not always be how you expect them to be. I am not saying be passive, but the Lord will bring that person to you. God will help you meet the person who is meant for you. Don’t be afraid because even if you are a really shy person the Lord will open a door for you. Don’t be unrealistic and be careful with expectations when it comes to marriage.